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Anonymous ;
u okay? im worried :/

Except feeling a little more than ever suicidal, and fighting the urge to cut down to my bones-

Yeah, I’m fine.

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Self harm survey

1. How old were you when you started self-harming?

[ ]
4-5 
[ ]
6-7
[ ]
8-9 
[x] 
10-11
[ ] 
12-13 
[ ] 
14-15 
[ ]
15-16
[ ] 16-17 
[ ]
18-19
[ ]
20-21
[ ] 
Older than 22

How often do you self-harm?

[x] It really all depends

[ ] More than once a day

[ ] Once a day

[ ] Several times a week
[ ] Once a week

[ ] Two or more times a month

[ ] Once a month

[ ] Several times in a year 

[ ] Once a year 

[ ] I have stopped 

[ ] I am trying to stop 

3. What method of self-harm do/did you primarily use?

[x] Cutting

[ ] Burning

[ ] Hair-pulling

[x] Scratching

[x] Interference with the healing of wounds

[ ] Hitting or bruising

[ ] Bone breaking

[x] Cutting and Scratching

[ ] Cutting and Burning

[x] Hitting Head against walls

[ ] Binging

[ ] Purging

[x] Starving

[x] Biting

[x] Rubber band slaps
[ ]Burning with hot water



4. Which Of These, If Any, Are Something You Struggle With Along With Self-harm?

[\] Anorexia (sort of..)

[ ] Bulimia

[ ] Anorexia and Bulimia

[ ] EDNOS (self diagnosed)

[x] Suicidal (self diagnosed)

[x] Various Psychiatric Disorders (i.e. Bi-polar, Borderline Personality, OCD, Panic, Anxiety, PTSD, Dissociative, Impulse Control Etc.)

[ ] Learning Disabilities

[ ] None of the Above ~Not Diagnosed with anything~



5. Do You Think That You (as An Individual) Need Professional Help To Stop Self-harming? 
[ ] Yes, The Only Way I Could Stop Is With Professional Help

[ ] No, I Have Stopped On My Own Though I Still Struggle Often And Sometimes Mess Up 

[x] I Have No Desire To Stop And Therefore Don’t Need Professional Help 

[ ] Yes, I Have Stopped With Professional Help

[ ] I don’t think I could ever stop without Professional help
[ ] Prefer not to answer 
[ ] I don’t know 



6. Are You Trying To Stop Self Harming?

[ ] No, And I Don’t Want To Stop.

[ ] No, But I Would Like To Be Able To Stop

[ ] Yes, But I Am Not Doing Very Well

[ ] I Have Stopped But I Still Mess Up Every Once In A While

[ ] I Am Completely Self Harm free

[x] Yes, but I don’t want to



7. Does Anyone Know About Your Self Harm? 

[ ] No. No One Knows 

[x] Some People May Have A Vague Idea Of Something

[ ] Yes, But Only My Closest Friend (s) 

[ ] Yes. But Only Some Of My Family Member(s)

[x] Yes, Some Friend(s) And Family Member(s) Know

[ ] Yes, All (or Most Of) My Friends Know

[ ] Yes, All (or Most Of) My Family Know

[ ] Yes, People that see my scars/cuts

[ ] Just a couple of people I trust

[ ] Yes, My Therapist, Psychiatrist, etc



8. How many years have you been self-harming? 

[ ] 1 year 

[ ] 2 years

[ ] 3 years

[ ] 4 years

[x] 5 years

[ ] 6 years

[ ] 7 years 

[ ] 8 years

[ ] 9 years
[ ] 10 or more years 



9. If You Self-harm, Were You Abused Or Neglected (either As A Child Or Later In Life)?

[x] No

[ ] Yes, I Was Emotionally Abused

[ ] Yes, I Was Physically Abused

[ ] Yes, I Was Sexually Abused

[ ] Yes, I Was Emotionally And Physically Abused

[ ] Yes, I Was Physically And Sexually Abused

[ ] Yes, I Was Sexually And Emotionally Abused

[ ] Yes, I Was Emotionally, Physically And Sexually Abused (

[ ] Yes, I Was Neglected

[ ] Yes, I Was Neglected As Well As Being Abused

[ ] Prefer not to answer 



10. Would you label yourself as emo?

[ ] Yes

[x] No

[ ] I guess..?



11. Do others label you as emo?

[ ] Yes

[ ] No

[x] Some People

[ ] I don’t know 



12.What would you or others label you as? (chose all that apply) Please select all that apply.
[ ] Prep

[ ] Goth 

[ ] Emo

[ ] Punk

[ ] Nerd

[ ] Hipster 

[ ] Pothead

[ ] Poser

[ ] Skater

[ ] Druggie

[ ] Normal
[x] I don’t believe in labels



13. What is your reaction when you see other people’s self-harm scars/cuts/marks? (choose all that apply)

[x] I want to get to know them

[x] I wonder what they went through to feel that was a way out

[ ] I want to get as far as possible from them so no one will find out about my own self-harm

[x] I will acknowledge them as someone who shares something in common with me

[ ] I would never even acknowledge them

[x] What happened for them to start cutting
[ ] Fear 

[x] Interest 

[x] Sadness

[ ] Happiness

[ ] Don’t really care

[ ] No reaction

[ ] Surprise

[ ] Relief 

[x] Jealousy

[ ] Upset that nobody else cuts as bad as me

[\] Happy that nobody else cuts as bad as me (sort of)



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mixedwithsuiicide:

razor-pens-and-paper-skin:

This upsets me so much, its not just girls who suffer.

I just want to sit down next to him and wrap my arms around him and close the toilet lid and wipe his face and kiss his skin and make him feel better. 

mixedwithsuiicide:

razor-pens-and-paper-skin:

This upsets me so much, its not just girls who suffer.

I just want to sit down next to him and wrap my arms around him and close the toilet lid and wipe his face and kiss his skin and make him feel better. 





 

 

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